Comments for power to share the practical spirituality of unconditional love Tue, 27 Jul 2010 11:12:14 +0000 hourly 1 Comment on Short-sighted, Long-sighted or Pure Genius? by fayella Tue, 27 Jul 2010 11:12:14 +0000 I think like me you just have bad eyesight and I wouldn’t suggest learning to drive as you would be a danger. I am glad you feel that your sight has improved but it could be just that you are now not forcing yourself to see clearly so you eyes are not straining as hard.

Comment on Self-Belief by Alex Tue, 13 Jul 2010 12:04:01 +0000 Funnily enough, this was also a book that I read when I was both a child and a teenager which was in my mother’s bookshelf. I agree that this book is worth it’s weight in gold and is easily the best book I have ever read. Everyone should have it. It helped me in particular during a difficult time in my late teens where I wasn’t sure what direction I was going in life and felt like I was trapped in a dead end job. I adopted the meditation techniques in the book and this (I believe) helped me creatively come up with the radical idea of studying for a degree in psychology. This was something I then did, and was something that I never regretted doing. I believe that if it wasn’t for the the techniques outlined in the book, I would have continued in that depressive rut of procrastination that I found myself in at the time.

Comment on What Is My Purpose On Earth? by lizzy Sun, 20 Jun 2010 19:48:38 +0000 i realy want to know more on spiritual growth ann how to communicate with mind of other positively.

Comment on What Is My Purpose On Earth? by jenny Fri, 18 Jun 2010 01:36:23 +0000 Don’t ever be afraid of who you really are inside of you, once you discover yourself. If you realize you don’t want to be who you are face your problems and with the help of everyday you can become the person you want to be.

Comment on Self-Belief by vector8 Mon, 10 May 2010 18:09:14 +0000 Have you checked Amazon, Gerard. They have used copies on sale.

Hope you get a copy anyway.

With love,

Comment on What is Synchronicity? by vector8 Mon, 10 May 2010 18:05:47 +0000 Perseus, one thing I’m curious about is who is thinking whom? Is your ex thinking you or are you thinking are? As you are connected anyway, it seems like whenever you think of her she’ll think or you; and vice versa.

Maybe you need to discuss if do want to get back together or whatever.

Anyway, I wish both of you all the very best.

With love,

ps: Your synchronicity experiences remind me of this quote:

“Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires.” Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Comment on What is Synchronicity? by Perseus Mon, 10 May 2010 08:31:04 +0000 Hi, Enocia.

Thank you for the reply.

Well, the same thing just happened the other day. I was heading to the library and as I was looking at an attractive woman, my ex walks by me.

I looked at her and she stared at the ground. I didn’t say anything and she went to wherever she was going to.

A couple of hours later I’m sitting on a bench reading a book. Out of nowhere I look up and I see my ex with a female friend walking by and staring at me.

When our eyes locked, she become startled and looked the other way.

So, in a day, for no reason at all:

First situation she walks some 2 inches by me, staring at the ground.

In the second situation she’s staring at me when I couldn’t see her.

How and why I stopped reading to look at exactly her sure beats me.

I did look occasionally at the people walking by but, I could have easily missed her/not seen her/not look up at that precise moment.

And the usual continues to happen.

If I’m reading a book, her name appears.

If I’m watching a movie, her name or someone who looks like her shows up.

Just yesterday my mother wanted to say one thing(I believe it was the name of a city) and what came out of her mouth was the name of the city my ex lived for awhile.

It also happens that, my mother befriended a young man. He has a daughter and my mother, when she sees the child, instead of saying her name?

She says my ex’s name. Not one time. Not two. Several times this happened.

There’s something I can’t get through my thick head.

As I’ve said before, I’ve had crushes.

Serious crushes. If memory serves me well, I actually had stronger feelings for another female and though things didn’t work out with that woman in particular I never suffered 1% of the Synchronicity I’m experiencing with this ex.

I even happened to end up in the same school with a woman I had feelings for, that’s a bit of synchronicity but nothing similar to whats happening right now.

The strangest thing is that I thought quite a lot about the other women. My feelings for them were strong, maybe stronger than the feelings I had for my most recent ex and still, these things only happen with my ex?

I don’t get it. I thought about them far more than I thought about my current ex. And nothing. If Synchronicity happened it was so little that It completely missed my attention.

I also have another question.

Even if a relationship is broken up by the girlfriend or the girlfriend(or both), they will keep finding each other unexpectedly/thinking about each other, and all the other synchronicity happening – until they start talking to each other again?

I forgot to mention something about that time I was at the bus stop and saw her in one of the buses.

Three hours before that, I text message a friend of mine asking him if he wanted to spend some time with him.

I waited some 20 minutes for the answer. Since I saw no reply I went back to sleep. My first action when awoken was to check my cellphone out.

There was a text message from him, telling me that he was free. I replied and he called me.

Now here’s the kicker. We live 2 minutes away from each other.

If I had stayed awake, I would’ve seen the text message when he sent it to me and instead of going to my ex’s city(My friend was in our city but then decided to go there) I wouldn’t have seen her and she wouldn’t have seen me.


1) we would probably hang out in his house.

2)I wouldn’t have been in my ex’s city when her bus arrived.

And another thing.

Years before I met my girlfriend, I went to school with a guy who was a good friend of the boyfriend of one of my ex’s female friends.

Talk about coincidences.

Another funny thing is that another ex classmate of mine, and the father of yet another ex classmate of mine, have their houses near her own.

On the same street, I believe.

I met a guy through a friend and was I surprised when I arrived at his place.

Her house was a few meters down the road.

All of this would be rather funny if the matter wasn’t so serious.

Anyway, sorry about the length of the post. Sorry for taking so long to reply and thanks for replying.

I too hope to find peace.

Comment on Self-Belief by gerard Wed, 05 May 2010 11:47:41 +0000 can someone send a copy of the E book . It is not available on hard print

Comment on How to partner up with your subsconscious? by mindmatter Sun, 02 May 2010 04:34:41 +0000 I feel that people do not know how to desire something enough to actually have a high percentage of attaining it. In order to gain a wonderful outcome or result you have to do a lot of things, some of which are:
1. set a goal 2. eat, breathe and sleep it 3. have it on your fridge so you read it daily and often 4. talk to yourself in front of the mirror in very positive ways 5. prepare the way for the outcome to enter your life 6. do all the small steps to get to the final outcome (break it down into manageable steps) 7. tell people about it so they ask you and you feel that they are watching you and you might be considered a flake if you do nothing about what you have said (accountability), 8. keep records of all you accomplish in pursuit of the goal – even the very small things, 9. do whatever is necessary to get to the goal,and keep researching what might work or what works better, etc. THEN, with your true desire so planned out, your subconscious will start aligning with your conscious mind because you have programmed yourself and the circumstances sufficiently to have the real desire …your body in all ways will follow the path you have designed. These are some of the steps used whenever people have lost tons of weight, and they obviously work for that huge hurdle, so could be applied to any other large goal to get the real motivation necessary, to take the steps necessary, and to eventually attain.

Comment on What is Synchronicity? by vector8 Sat, 01 May 2010 09:21:17 +0000 Wow Perseus, what a story! Thank you so much for sharing.

It sounds to me like you have a lot of unfinished business with your ex if your feelings are that strong that you keep attracting each other.

I believe as long as you keep thinking about her, you’re going to keep attracting her or symbols of her.

Perhaps, you both need to go for it and see where it takes you.

Whatever you decide, I wish you peace.


Comment on Self-Belief by vector8 Sat, 01 May 2010 09:13:49 +0000 Thank you Neill. I believe that book is a classic and I still dip into it from time to time. Enjoy…

With love,

Comment on The Power of Inner Silence by vector8 Sat, 01 May 2010 09:12:02 +0000 I’m glad you found the article helpful, Ruchama. Keep exploring what the sound means for you.

Peace always,

Comment on Nice words and so what? by vector8 Sat, 01 May 2010 09:09:58 +0000 Thanks for your comment, Joseph ani.

Comment on What is Synchronicity? by Perseus Sat, 01 May 2010 06:54:45 +0000 Sorry, just wanted to add some few details.

When I saw my ex in the subway, she was wearing a skirt. She very rarely wore a skirt before she met me but when I told her that I loved seeing her in one, she started wearing them.

Its more likely that she’s dating someone who enjoys skirts too or she ended up enjoying skirts but, it still hurts like hot fire. To see your girlfriend with a skirt – when you love skirts?

Strange coincidence.

And, when I said that I remember some my dreams under this sleep pattern:

I meant when I go to bed at 1pm in the morning in wake up at 1 in the morning.


Comment on What is Synchronicity? by Perseus Sat, 01 May 2010 06:48:43 +0000 This is a rather lengthy post:

I’m not sure why I’m writing this. A relationship of mine was ended by my then ex, years ago.

I didn’t take it lightly. The next few months weren’t easy but I eventually came to terms with it.

Well, right now I can afford spending much of my time inside my house. Thus, I rarely go out. My ex, lives in another city, its near where I live.

And, with all that size, with all the people I have never seen in the countless years I’ve lived near, I probably never crossed the street with most of those individuals.

Yet, when I go out, to that City, and I feel uneasy – sort of like a weird sensation in my stomach – I end up seeing her.

Out of the blue. I’m either looking at the ground or looking at something/someone else and my body directs itself into looking at where she is.

Without possibly knowing where she is; that she could be there. That she is there.

And she, also turns from where she is, and looks at me.

I don’t understand this. Our relationship ended. I accept that and I make my best effort to forget about her but, even when I went to visit another woman I was courting, the night before I went, I dreamed about my ex.

Again, I woke up with that uneasy feeling. I prepare my things and I head to that city. The same thing happens again.

I had the weird feeling in my stomach again. I even confused several females for her because they look so alike, and they had the same height, skin colour, hair colour and hair length.

I finally arrived at where I was supposed to go and now comes the funny part.

Where I was supposed to be at, where I went to, was located in another city, a city far away from my ex’s city.

I spent a few hours with the woman I was courting and when it was time to return home, I took the subway.

Oddly, as I was talking to a friend on the phone, I missed the lines and I ended up in a line I never use.

I enter that train, because I had to return to the original station so I could pick my correct line, and as I exit the train, I look to the inside of the now filled train and I see my ex girlfriend.

She was staring at the floor. But she looked exactly at me when I looked at her and she was startled, looked at the ceiling and then looked at me again until the train departed.

A couple of months prior to that, maybe a month, I had to go to her city so I took the bus.

I took a place on the left side of the train, away from the bus stops.

But when we’re passing by the bus stop near where she lives, I instantly look at the bus stop and I see her talking to someone.

I have a very strange sleep pattern. When I sleep like most people sleep(from 10 pm to 7am) I can recall most of my dreams.

I’ve noticed that the few dreams I can remember under this sleep pattern, I dream with her. And when it’s not a dream, I hear her name out of the blue.

Say, I go out to buy some fish and first thing I hear is some mother calling her daughter, who happens to have my ex’s name.

I hear her name all the time. I read her name all the time. Its not like her name is the most popular. Or maybe it was and before I met her I never took notice. I don’t know.

I do know that, I am reading something on the internet and her almost exact birth date(month and day) comes up.

And this happens a lot. Or its just her date that appears, or her month. Sometimes its her birth year.

Sometimes I’m just listening to the radio and there’s some mention of her adopted hometown. Or, I’m browsing books and “our” book appears out of nowhere.

Just the other day, I dreamed I was in Sweden, being tutored by a very educated older gentleman. He had granddaughter, a very charming young woman.

Totally the opposite from my ex(hair colour, personality etc) but, the old man treated her with an endearment I used to use on my ex girlfriend.

I don’t know for sure if that dream just came to be or if I shaped it, but if the latter is the truth, why would I do that?

If its not any of that, its something like someone having teeth that resemble her own or, even stranger, meeting someone that very much like her when she was small.

Or seeing someone who remind me so much of her. Like today. I went to see a friend at her city. Irritably, I felt the stomach feeling again.

I passed a woman who looked almost exactly like her, except this one was a little taller, skinnier and had a different style of dress.

When I go down to meet my friend in downtown, I happen to look at a passing bus(I very rarely look at the people inside the bus stop) and I see two females and a guy.

The guy looked at me, then the female nearest the window saw me and stared at me for several seconds then looked on.

It was my ex.

Look, I just don’t understand this. I’ve been in relationships before. I’ve had my heart damaged before.

I had a major crush over a girl and it eventually went away, no weird coincidences, no strange feelings in my stomach though I did saw her once out of the blue and it was because I felt like looking that way.

But this woman, something about her just completely made my head upside down.

Maybe the strangest thing was how we met. I met her in England. I thought she was British. Turns out, she was not only from my Country, she was originally from my exact hometown.

Worse, she was/is friends with a woman my grandmother befriended and she, my ex, lived some 3 minutes away from where I lived most of my life.

We grew up very close, without maybe never seeing each other and then, when she goes away to another Country, I meet her?

She played where I played as a kid, she walked where I walked as a kid, and I meet her at such a far away place.

Where is the sense in this?

Why, of all the females in this planet, why this?

Relationships end. Its just the way they are. She probably has a boyfriend now and her life is set in a different path from mine. I can accept that.

I’ve resigned myself to never seeing her again and that’s ironic because I saw her/I was with her, far more times when she lived so far away from me, than now, that she lives in that town, so close to mine.

So close, so far, heh?

At the end, we destroyed something really special. I know, this is cliche, but it was.

We were both very inexperienced(first girlfriend/first boyfriend) and I made several mistakes which probably led to the dismisses of this summer’s day.

I don’t regret what we had, what we shared and what we went through. I grew up thanks to her and I’m proud that she grew up too, because of me.

I just want these dreams, this “bumps into each other,” I want to stop hear her name, and all those other coincidences to go away.

She was sweet, and she was full of life. Exactly what I needed when I met her, though it seems I no longer have a need for that in my life since she’s here no more.

So why all of this?

I would like to meet with her again. I would love to heal our friendship. We started as very good friends and I miss that special friendship, which I never really developed with anyone ever before and ever since.

Not even with my best friend.

But if that’s not possible, I just want peace and quiet and have these coincidences die out so I can move on too.

But there’s something. Something that is just so close at hand but I can’t reach it. When we met, it was like everything was in tune.

There was something about her sadness that made me compassionate – I’m very rarely prone to emotions and I’ve seen pretty bad sights in my life.

Sadly, we were both so immature, and what we had was lost. She’s my only regret in a life that had quite a few situations worthy of the word regret.

The absurd is, I had feelings for this woman and maybe I still have. But she was – not by a long shot – the first female I had feelings for, but, regardless of how strong of a ‘crush’ I had for the other females, there was never this sadness that I feel now for what we had with my ex, and for what was lost.
Thanks. I needed to talk. Sorry for the long post.

And at least I learned a lesson: never get romantically involved with a friend.

There’s too much at risk, that’s how I think now anyway.

Comment on Self-Belief by Neill Tue, 27 Apr 2010 11:56:02 +0000 I first read this book in the early 1970’s. Already well thumbed it came through my mother from her office where it had been passed around like a thumping good read.
Why? It promotes JOY in a simple unpatronising way.
In my mind “Bring out the Magic” is the spiritual prototype of all later “self-help” books.
As a resource it will say with me my whole life. I still have my mother’s – my – copy. Still covered in newspaper to hide my tweenage embarrassment at the title.
I am reading it now for the first time – again.

Comment on The Power of Inner Silence by Ruchama Thu, 15 Apr 2010 22:06:39 +0000 Thank you so much for the precious insights that this website is providing me with. I used to say laughingly ‘that it is God whispering in my ears to be present’. By now it sounds more like a loud calling, not exactly a scream, but for a little while I was angry and thought, if it is really God than why can’t it speak in ways that I can understand…
Now that I have come across your website and all your contributions, I am feeling connected and reassured to be with this sound of silence as a companion not as a threatening force that will overtake me… Thank you very much for this! I will be listening with more attention, curiosity and joy…

Comment on Nice words and so what? by Joseph ani Fri, 09 Apr 2010 05:20:32 +0000 It never came to my mind that apart 4rm buying books, that we specially design website that can inspire once life spiritually. Nice work ok.

Comment on Dear God, What is Your Will for Me? by vinaynimmakuri Sun, 28 Mar 2010 19:49:29 +0000 Good Work Enocia, God bless you. But I would advise you to pray and give people promise from Bible from which they can gather strength and pray.

God Bless

Comment on Mind Travel by Lingaraja Wed, 03 Mar 2010 11:16:56 +0000 Very good article. Most people have same type of experiences during dream which appears by the interaction of our conscious and sub-conscious mind. If we able interact our conscious mind with unconscious mind we can easily travel by mind at any time. Mind can travel in any medium, at any time, at any speed and at any place in the universe and beyond. This may possible. May be ancient saints have the power to do so. So if we try we can.

So Best of Luck.